Experience has taught me a few things ...

When photographing infants, it can be a guessing game as to which toys and gimmicks get attention.  Some work better than others.  I have to work quickly with options.  A child's attention span is short, especially as an infant!  For the most part, toy manufacturers have done their homework.  But every child is different and responds differently to the same toy or activity.

Many of our clients - and colleagues - admire how I relate with children and how well they respond to me.  I'm not really sure why this is, but I take it as a compliment.  Perhaps children can sense my comfort being with them.  I have always enjoyed working with children, and continue to do so.

A child's comfort is paramount when in the company of a stranger.  Whoever has the strongest bond with the child should always be present.  (Experience has taught us this is not always the mother, but sometimes the caregiver/nanny.) But usually, the child needs to know mom is nearby.  Some infants never want to leave the comfort and security of their mother.  This is why THE RIGHT TOY OR ACTIVITY IS SO IMPORTANT to secure the undivided attention of the child.  Any child will momentarily engage with anything interesting or captivating.  But the moment can be fleeting, and once the novelty has worn off, the child will be quick to seek the whereabouts of mom.  But until then, I will have instructed mom to slowly back away out of sight ... until needed.

Another thing I have learned is too many people trying to garner the child's attention and cooperation is overwhelming for the child and is counterproductive to a successful session.   I need the little one's eyes focused on the camera or, at times, interacting with a toy or something natural within reach.  So the fewer people around, the better.

The following is a wonderful simple guide as to what works best for a typical child during his or her first two years ...